Simone Anderson
The internet has revolutionised many things and helping our love is no exception. Online dating has become such an common occurrence. Who wants to go out and meet someone when you can find multiple options with profiles telling you all about themselves at the click of a mouse? If you do decide to dive head first into the world of online dating, here are a few do’s and don’ts to remember.
Do’s
Be Honest
A lot people tend to lie on their online dating profile to impress potential matches. This isn’t a good idea. If you are looking to create a long lasting relationship, then lying about yourself isn’t a good way to start. Just be yourself. Your ‘one’ should accept you for who you are.
Use Good Pictures
It’s hard to see someone post a picture of themselves and not wonder if it has been altered. Filters in photos have become pretty popular. Use a picture that hasn’t been altered at all. You want the people viewing your profile to know what you really look like because when the time comes to meet and you don’t look like your picture, then what?
Meet in Public
If the time comes when you decide to meet the person you’re talking to, then make sure you do in a public place. No matter how much you think you know a person, it can’t hurt to be cautious. Remember, this person is technically still a stranger. Stranger danger.
Be Prepared
There’s a reason the TV show Catfish has become an hit, it’s because people lie about who they are. Thinking you are the exception to the rule is a little to naive. It’s best to be prepared to be let down just in case they are lying. Don’t have high expectations, try and be realistic.
Don’ts
Prolong Meeting
If you feel like you genuinely like a person, it’s best to meet as soon as possible. People can be completely different online than they are in the real world. You can feel you have a connection online but when you meet, there might not be any chemistry there at all. It would be such a waste if you spent months talking to them just to find out it’s not going to work.
Invite them Home
This goes back to not trusting strangers. Inviting them into your home without having several meetings is a big no in the book. Going to their house isn’t a good idea either.
Choose Looks
Don’t pick someone’s profile solely based on their looks. You’re looking to find someone who is compatible with you, not for someone who looks the best. Their personality is what really matters. Looks can be deceiving.
Be Late
When it’s time for that first date, it’s best to not be late. This is your first meeting after all and you want to try and make a good first impression. It won’t hurt to be 5-10 minutes earlier than expected.
